[ that is fine. he is still his best bet. and he isn't looking for friendliness — those who are harsh are often the most truthful, too. ]
And yet your answers will be better than anything else I could get.
But I suppose I can see the point. Not designed to be solitary... but that is all I'm used to. I'm not a particularly trusting individual, you see. Some might call me opportunistic. And so I wonder — if we're designed to care for others, why does it hurt so much more than being alone?
You compare the wrong elements — while not made for solitude, you are able to sustain yourself while alone. Being alone is not the same as being lonely. Loneliness is the quality of unreciprocated companionship, and the greatest poison for your kind.
Caring for yourself and others... means you must accept the good with the bad. The joyous gains and the bitter losses, because neither can exist without the other. When you care — you can lose. But, you also fight that much harder to protect what you care for.
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And yet your answers will be better than anything else I could get.
But I suppose I can see the point. Not designed to be solitary... but that is all I'm used to. I'm not a particularly trusting individual, you see. Some might call me opportunistic. And so I wonder — if we're designed to care for others, why does it hurt so much more than being alone?
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Caring for yourself and others... means you must accept the good with the bad. The joyous gains and the bitter losses, because neither can exist without the other. When you care — you can lose. But, you also fight that much harder to protect what you care for.
What brought this maudlin upon you, hm?